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4 “Quiet” Behaviors that Reveal a Person’s True Self
Quiet behaviors speak louder than words.
Have you ever wondered what might lie beyond the surface when you interact with someone?
While some behaviors may shout loudly about a person’s character, it is often the smaller, quieter actions that hold the most profound insights.
These behaviors, often overlooked or underestimated, can offer a deeper glimpse into a person’s authenticity and values.
Curiosity Without Agenda
A person who genuinely expresses curiosity about others, their passions, and their experiences without ulterior motives or judgment showcases a sincere interest in understanding and connecting.
They’re not trying to figure out your weaknesses or collect juicy gossip; when they lean in to hear your stories, it’s not about gaining power or manipulating the narrative. It’s about creating an authentic bond, where you’re seen and valued for who you truly are.
Their questions are not driven by self-interest or a hidden agenda; instead, they’re genuinely interested in understanding and appreciating the person before them.
The takeaway: Pay attention to how people engage in conversations without judgment or hidden motives. Look for those who actively listen, lean in to hear your stories, and ask questions to understand and appreciate your passions and experiences — instead of those who are focused on promoting themselves or their interests.
Reveling in Others’ Glory
Comparison lurks around every corner.
When I was a student, there was a girl in my circle who seemed to have a need to prove that she was always one step ahead of the rest of us.
She was so insecure that she would always downplay our accomplishments or try to shift the spotlight back to herself. At one point, I stopped talking about myself whenever she was around.
You can tell a lot about a person from the way they react to other people’s achievements and successes.
Some view others’ accomplishments as a threat and secretly harbor envy or engage in silent comparisons. Others…
