Shitty relationship advice has made us struggle in silence. — We’ve been told so many lies about how “perfect” relationships look like. We grew up witnessing bad relationship models in our families. We were repeatedly told how vital it is to go with the flow of societal norms. As a result, now we mistake bad behaviors for right, toxic habits…

Hint: It’s not Anna Karenina, Lolita, or The Great Gatsby — If you could read just a few books in your lifetime, which would you choose? Would you choose books that could challenge your mindset and help you become a better version of yourself? Would you pick books that had the potential to transform your worldview? Or would you opt for…

#2. They Don’t Expect You to Read Their Mind — Trust is at the heart of authentic connections. When there’s no trust, there’s no safety, healthy communication, or meaningful connections. Whether we’re talking about a colleague, friend, family member, or romantic partner, you want people you can rely on in your life. People you can turn to and count on…

Action, suspense, intrigue, and mind-bending twists — If you came here for a list of books with shocking, marvelous, mind-bending plot twists, a) you’re in the right place b) if you think Hitchcock is the king of plot twists, wait till you read these books c) you’re in for a wild ride Without further ado, let me…

Protect yourself by learning to identify them. — Most victims of gaslighting have no idea they’re being gaslighted. The reason is that gaslighting can be difficult to identify. It usually starts subtly and gradually intensifies. By the time the victim recognizes and accepts they’re being emotionally abused, they have become too attached to their gaslighter and the gaslighter…

It’s time to break the cycle. — I like to think of mistakes as disguised opportunities for growth. We’re all bound to screw things up one way or another multiple times throughout our relationships. What differentiates good from mediocre partners is the ability to learn from a mistake and do better next time. Assuming, of course, you…

Because emotional safety is the best thing a partner can provide you with. — Safe people allow you to be your authentic self and leave no room for judgment. Safe people make you feel internally relaxed and comfortable enough to let your guard down. Safe people are open, honest, and vulnerable, and are genuinely interested in building an authentic connection with you, where mutual…

Don’t be fooled by a book’s sales — The self-help industry feeds off people’s misery. Authors included. Thousands of self-proclaimed gurus take advantage of people’s need to find any kind of resource to help them deal with all the chaos in our world today. Sadly, most of the advice presented in self-help books is stupid, unrealistic, or impossible…

Because marriage isn’t for everyone. — Let’s face it, marriage isn’t for everyone. It’s easy to get carried away by the burning enthusiasm and the bliss of a relationship and rush into thinking that your partner is the right person to build a future with. Unfortunately, there are some types of people who simply don’t have…